“For My yoke is easy and My burden is light.” — Matthew 11:30
Being born again is an incredible reality. Through simple faith in Jesus Christ—believing that He is the way, the truth, and the life, that He died for our sins and rose again—we are yoked with the Son of God. Many times, however, this truth has been distorted, and the call to deny ourselves and take up our cross has been used as a tool to impose false humility, creating unnecessary burdens on believers.
Denying Ourselves: A Call to Live in Truth
Scripture tells us to deny ourselves, take up our cross, and follow Jesus. Unfortunately, some have taken this to mean that we must impose suffering upon ourselves to attain holiness. But holiness is not something we can produce—it is already given to us through Christ. We are holy and righteous because of Him. Our role is to agree with this truth, and as we do, our lives will naturally reflect that holiness.
We are called to deny the old man—our sinful nature—not the new creation we have become in Christ. To pick up our cross means to take seriously our new creation reality, living in steadfast agreement with God’s truth. This is not a burdensome or self-loathing task but a liberating recognition that in Christ, we are free.
The True Meaning of Christ’s Yoke
Jesus assures us that His yoke is easy and His burden is light. Yet, many live as if following Him is a heavy and oppressive weight. If walking with Christ feels burdensome, we may be carrying the wrong load. Religion places heavy burdens, but sonship and daughtership in Christ bring an easy and light cargo.
Jesus does not slam His yoke upon us; He carries the weight for us. His desire is for intimate fellowship, walking with us daily, speaking into our lives. The yoke of Christ is a relational privilege, not a religious duty. His burden is not legalistic effort but the freedom of knowing our old sin nature is dead.
Lies of the Old Man
Many struggle with the lie that they are still bound by their old nature. But how can we be both a new creation and the old man at the same time? It’s impossible. The enemy tries to deceive us into believing we are still defined by our past sins and struggles. But the truth is, in Christ, we are crucified, resurrected, and made new. There is no longer a perverse or crooked way within us—only remnants of the past trying to convince us otherwise.
Lies. Lies. Lies.
If following Jesus feels like a constant struggle, it may be time to reassess what we are carrying. True discipleship is not about striving but about agreeing with God’s truth. Denying ourselves means rejecting the idea that our flesh still calls the shots and standing firm in our righteousness in Christ.
Living in the Freedom of Christ
Jesus’ work on the cross is finished. We do not need to crucify ourselves—our sinful nature has already been put to death in Him. He calls us to walk in the fullness of this reality, agreeing with His Word, and living in the freedom He purchased for us. As we embrace this truth, we glorify Him through our transformed lives.
Today, let’s break free from old paradigms and fully embrace the Gospel of Jesus Christ.
A Prayer for Revelation
Father, I am amazed at Your wonderful grace. Your remarkable value system has won my heart’s allegiance forever. I choose to agree with Your Word and believe that everything You communicate is absolute truth. Thank You for the light burden and the easy yoke. Holy Spirit, help me see my new creation identity as it truly is. Thank You for loving me. I love me too. I love You. In Jesus’ name, Amen.